So, you’ve landed a high-ranking exec who wears that business suit like he owns the world and you’re wondering what the sex will be like because he’s not telling. Well, you might be getting yourself a sexually submissive man who’s turned on by your domination, but how do you know and why is he?
Many men who are sexually submissive don’t “look it” in their everyday lives. They’re not meek, suspender-hitching guys who play video games all day. Though, those guys are amazing, too. Many times, these men are high-powered executives, doctors, or lawyers. They might want to relinquish all that control when it’s time to let loose. Making decisions, absorbing failures that may not be their direct fault, handling legal issues, and constantly having to put their best foot forward is exhausting. So, when it’s time to relax, bathe in their arousal, and enjoy their partner, they’d love it if you make the decisions, control the events, and blow their minds. Take control so they can enjoy themselves.
Here are 11 hints that suit-wearing uber-competent man would love you to tell him what to do and how.
#1 SUCCESS TURNS HIM ON
While this man may like his own success, he loves yours. Submissive men get very excited when talking about “high-powered women” such as female business leaders and politicians. If he follows up inquiries about a woman’s occupation with, “Does she run the show?” this man finds fully-realized female power very sexy.
#2 HE ENJOYS SEEING YOU TAKE CHARGE
Whether you are asserting yourself in public or sending back food you don’t like, he enjoys watching your strength and hopes that will include making all the decisions about outings and dates. While some men may think you are neurotic and controlling, the submissive man will find you “magnificent”. He’s secure in his own power and isn’t ashamed to bow to yours.
#3 HIGH HEELS
He loves seeing you strutting around in high heels, especially the Louboutins. These red-bottomed calf-killers can make a submissive man drool with lust. He might dislike flats or other comfort shoes. For him, heels are female power and dominance come to life.
#4 YOUR FEET
Many submissive men love feet. They don’t particularly care about the specifics of what’s attached to those feet, for instance, if you are overweight, but he may ask if you have gotten a pedicure and he will compliment you on your toes. This man may really enjoy giving foot rubs.
#5 HE’S NOT FOND OF PENETRATION
If you hear him say that penetration “isn’t his thing” he could be a submissive man. Sexual intercourse may be a big turn-off for submissive men while sexual rejection may be a big turn-on. This behavior indicates he is straight and submissive, not of some other orientation. Though a submissive man can, most certainly, be the other half of a homosexual or bisexual relationship.
#6 HE GAZES UP AT YOU
Part of his erotic desires, a submissive man enjoys looking up to you. When he is physically below you he gets excited. He may sleep on the floor beside your bed or ask you to sit in a seat while he sits below. When you hover over him, he may feel protected, desired, and turned on.
#7 HIS SKIN IS SMOOTH
He may shave his body hair often. If he gets undressed and his chest, legs, and pubic area is smooth, this is a hint you may be falling for a submissive man. Though, if he’s a competitive swimmer, you’ll want to look for other signs.
#8 AN EXCELLENT FATHER
Not content to just be in his children’s lives, a submissive man is often an amazing father. He may travel long distances to his children’s games or activities and greatly enjoy being a father. If the two of you were to get divorced, he’ll often begin a custody battle. As much as you care for your children, he cares for his children just as much.
#9 HE ENJOYS CLEANING
A submissive man won’t sit around watching you do all the work and have the nerve to comment, “You missed a spot.”, no, he will clean the home happily. Menial chores which may include dusting and laundry excite him and are a pleasant part of his day. But, that doesn’t mean you can’t share in some of the duties.
He may also like small spaces, as they make him comfortable.
#10 HE’S OLD-FASHIONED
A gentleman, through and through, he is deferential to women. He may show chivalry with grand gestures that include opening doors, pulling out chairs, and when at a restaurant, asking if the meal, seating, and atmosphere was to your liking. He values women, greatly, and it pleases him to please you.
#11 HE BELIEVES IN FEMALE SUPERIORITY, WHOLEHEARTEDLY
Most likely, he is vocal about female superiority. He may go on a long speech about how women hold the majority of the wealth, are better at tolerating pain, and in general, are the superior sex. Not to mention, all the ways women are becoming leaders in politics, business, and other areas. Rather than threatening his masculinity, this will excite him beyond all measure. As mentioned in #1, he loves female success and power. The submissive man doesn’t dislike men, or being a man, but relishes in the power of women, and so he may not understand why men rule the world when women are the logical choice.
Submissive men don’t have one look to them, but they often come with an expensive suit, polished shoes, and a very successful company on their shoulders.